Platonic relations are what?
Ancient Greek philosopher Plato wasmany an interesting theories. Including the existence of several forms of love. He considered the most significant of these feelings to be feelings that did not include bodily attraction. Since then they have received the name "platonic love".
By and large, platonic relations area direct answer to the question: "Is friendship possible between a man and a woman?" According to the generally accepted opinion, in any gender relations there is a tinge of eroticism, hidden sexuality. And if the representatives of the opposite sex, close in age, closely communicate, often seen, so there is "something between them." Let's see how this suspicion is justified. Let us recall the times of the Middle Ages, chivalry. To mind, there come beautiful ladies, minstrels, lofty ballads, in which the service to a woman was celebrated. This example best describes platonic relations. This is an ideal love, living in the hearts for many years, in which there is no hint of physical intimacy. Its synonym is knightly love. A man went to war, left the subject of his passion often not for one year. The lady promised to wait for him, gave her a vow of fidelity, and with it the man also swore. People remained true to the word for a long time. They could lead a free sex life, but they did not let anyone into their hearts.
Platonic love in faces
Or such a model of the concept of "Platonicrelations ": this is the connection between the great Russian classic of our literature Ivan Sergeevich Turgenev and the talented French opera singer Polina Viardot. The history of their acquaintance is known to us from the school bench. And it remains to be surprised at the immense share of respect that these people had for each other and for their feelings, which gave them the willpower not to sink to the banal intrigue. That's what true love, friendship, love-cooperation, love-support looks like. Viardot's husband, a famous Parisian composer and public figure, did much to popularize Russian literature and, in particular, Turgenev's own work. Naturally, it was not a secret for him what the writer was feeling for Pauline. But their platonic relations are an embodiment of correctness and purity, and Louis Viardot with joy and pleasure accepted Ivan Sergeevich in his house, supported him in difficult moments of life, considered a member of his family. And Turgenev did not deceive his confidence! Children Viardo he considered almost his children. The writer's daughter, born of a serf peasant woman, grew up and was brought up in the French family - in her homeland, in Russia, she was illegitimate! That's what it means to platonic love a woman! And combine personal, intimate feelings with the ability to make friends! Speaking about historical personalities, one can not help recalling Marina Tsvetaeva and her "novels in verse" with the German poet Rilke and Russian - Boris Pasternak. Rilke and Tsvetaeva never met in person. She met Pasternak several years later, after an active written communication. But both loved passionately and passionately - as the Poet of another Poet, Talent in the most vivid manifestation of him can love. With all this, she most of all in the world treasured her husband, Sergei Efron, and life was put in order to be with him together. Therefore, the platonic feelings are the kinship of souls, the joy of communication, the closeness of inner worlds.
Perfect love in literary works
Our literature is a wonderful literature. If you raise the topic of an ideal, high love, for which no time or distance is a hindrance, then the legendary "Pomegranate Bracelet" by Kuprin comes to mind. The petty telephonist Jeltkov proved capable of a great spiritual feat. For many years he loves Princess Vera - without a hint of reciprocity, without any pretensions and claims. He loves and adores - as a Madonna, as a saint.